We had our babies service on Saturday and it is way to much for me to even begin to write about now. Today we posted the front of our babies memorial card on Facebook. We talked about it and there are pros and cons. There are two big positives for me. First that more people will know of our beautiful babies including folks I see rarely and who don't know we lost them. Second knowing others who've experienced similar losses was tremendously helpful to me and if our sharing can help others not feel so alone, I want to do that. The negative possibilities include stupid comments, creating stress for pregnant women and being vulnerable (that one is a positive too). In any case it's done.
Monday, April 27, 2015
We had our babies service on Saturday and it is way to much for me to even begin to write about now. Today we posted the front of our babies memorial card on Facebook. We talked about it and there are pros and cons. There are two big positives for me. First that more people will know of our beautiful babies including folks I see rarely and who don't know we lost them. Second knowing others who've experienced similar losses was tremendously helpful to me and if our sharing can help others not feel so alone, I want to do that. The negative possibilities include stupid comments, creating stress for pregnant women and being vulnerable (that one is a positive too). In any case it's done.
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I'm so very sorry for your losses. May sharing your story and memorial card on FB (or anywhere) provide you with more support than stupid comments.
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