And so - a request. One of the biggest questions I have is how do we talk about his first mom's children who are at home with her? Does anyone else have a similar situation with a domestic infant adoption? So far, we have had one visit with her, however, we are in really different mental places, we are building a future with our son while she is grieving so I feel like the future of our relationship is completely unknown; I don't know if he will get to talk about this with her or meet his siblings. If you do have a similar situation, how have you talked about this with your child?